All of the photos really help! I'd go with something really creamy golden like Sherwin-Williams 6114 Bagel in a satin or low sheen finish- no semi-gloss or gloss as this will add glare and make your room look smaller. I'd paint the walls AND ceiling in this color. Believe it or not, this will actually make your rooms look more spacious because you'll eliminate that white line where the wall meets the ceiling. Your cabinets will look fresher and your countertops will look fantastic.
Keep the trim around the sink window and all other windows white for character and definition. Yes, even that apron piece where you have the $5 sign. BUT, paint the vertical piece between the eating room windows with the wall color.
If you still want to paint an accent wall, look at deeper clay colors like 7708 Rustic Adobe or 7701 Cavern Clay. This will show off the deep red tones in the artwork and table cloth.
Let me know how it goes!